»w h y . i . l o v e . h i m

-so me & hubby were at the beach last nite, well early this morning [about 2am] & had an insightful conversation, that ended like this;

-bryan; that's why i asked you to marry me..

-me; why?

-bryan; cause your damn near perfect to me ♥

gotta love that man... :)

»t o . c u t . o f f . o r . n o t . t o . c u t . o f f . ?

»so me &nd the fiance got into a heated debate. i mean so heated, we damn there let it ruin the night. so here it is. we were talking and the subject of family distancing ones' ex from the family came up.

»bryan; 'as soon as a drop a chick, the whole family has to. &nd if they choose the girls side, then that fucks up me &nd that family memebers relationship.period'

wtf?

»me; 'so basically, if me &nd your sister were to vibe each other's personality,and shit doesnt work out between me &nd you, me and your sister have to end our relationship, due to your rule aka your bitchfit?'

»bryan;'yup. cause its all about respect.',

what the fx!k!!! seriously?

»me; 'so then me &nd your sisters friendship would be soley based on the fact that me &nd you are together?, well if thats the case, the last thing i would want to do is meet your sister, especially if you say me &nd her would hit it off, only for our friendship to be based on me being w. you only to know that if me &nd you break up, she suppose to drop me like a bad habit, all because you said so &nd its out of respect.i would rather a person be friends w. me because the vibe w. my personality vs. who im with, i'd rather a bitch hate me cause she hates my personality vs hate me just cause of who i am with. [even though we all know that that happens to the best of us =) ]

»bryan; 'wtf? so then you dont take the relationship seriously if you want to take it to that point'

»me; 'its not that, im just lookin at it logically, why waste me &nd said persons time, to get to know each other only to know that if shit dont work out between us, that im goin to lose a good friend? to me that aint no real friendship, that shit is real phony &nd i dont fuck w. phony people.point blank period.why would you let an ex dictate your relationship w. family, if you say that family is first, cause at the end of the day, we are all grown ass people & make our own decisions & if at the end of the day we dont work out but me &nd your sister still want to be friends, damnit, thats what we are goin to do.

eventually we just let it all go, and was just like it is what it is. but i had to bring this to my followers attention &nd ask yalls opinion,

»if you and an ex break up, and you have introduced this person family &nd the family vibes with this person, do you expect said ex as well as your family to cut all ties w. each other? if yes, why? if not, why not?

inquiring minds want to know =)

»w t f .

so; just when you think you move on from one situation [a] to a better situation [b]; why is it situation [a] wants to come back w a vengence? ugh i hate this shit. so what do ya do, huh? when you want to let go, but a strong bond keeps you involved, i.e. a child, but you want to be full devoted & commited to someone more for you? life aint easy & relationships aint no fuckin walk in the park. :?/ damn damn damn. why does a bitch have to be so desirable? lls. nite loves.

-mimi :)